
About Michael LaFleur
Michael LaFleur writes from the space between what families promise and what they deliver—between survival and transformation. My work comes out of broken systems, military bases, and hard ground, where the only way forward is through.
His approach to memoir rests on something simple: authentic transformation requires careful telling, not manufactured drama. Instead, it emerges through the kind of restraint that makes every word matter, through seeing clearly rather than explaining loudly, through the patient work of letting experience speak for itself.
Growing up on military bases and in broken homes across Wyoming’s harsh foothills, LaFleur learned that survival meant distinguishing between what was supposed to be true and what actually was. This discipline of clear sight became the foundation of his writing—a voice that honors both damage and healing without exploiting either.
His faith informs his work not through easy answers or manufactured redemption, but through the harder understanding that grace operates in the gaps where human systems fail. Transformation, he has learned, requires both human effort and something beyond human effort—a tension that runs through everything he writes.
The Cloud Grows Thin represents his belief that contemporary American memoir demands both literary sophistication and moral honesty, that readers deserve stories that neither sensationalize trauma nor offer false comfort, but instead provide the kind of hard-won wisdom that can only come from living through what you write about.
Why I Wrote This Book
I didn’t set out to write a memoir. There are enough trauma narratives in the world, and I had no interest in exploiting pain for entertainment. But, for years, people who heard parts of my story told me I should write it down. I resisted.
After my father died, I told someone my entire story for the first time. He said I should write a book about it. Said it might help someone. That struck me.
I’ve learned it takes both grit and grace to make it in this world. Anyone who tells you “It’s going to be okay” either doesn’t know what they’re talking about or is lying. It may not be okay. You’ll just have to deal with it. We don’t get what we think we deserve.
The Cloud Grows Thin is my life lived. If someone finds something useful in it, I hope it was helpful.

Speaking & Appearances
Michael speaks to audiences about authentic transformation, breaking generational cycles, and navigating institutional failure. His approach combines literary insight with practical wisdom earned through lived experience.
- Grace, Unearned but Not Unopposed: Finding Redemption Beyond Religious Platitudes – Faith communities, men’s groups, recovery programs (45-75 minutes)
- Surviving Family Dysfunction: Growing Up in Chaos – Military family support groups, veteran organizations (45-60 minutes)
- Authentic Transformation: Beyond Toxic and Fragile – Men’s groups, faith communities (60-90 minutes)
- Breaking Cycles: How Broken Systems Shape Us and How We Can Choose Differently – Educational institutions, book clubs (30-45 minutes)
- Writing Trauma Without Exploitation: The Ethics of Memoir – Writing conferences, literary communities (60 minutes)
Ready to hear a story that doesn’t promise easy answers but offers something better—authentic hope grounded in reality?